#486: Being Hard on Yourself: It Doesn't Work and How to Stop
The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity
Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach
4.9 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 15 March 2022
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Being hard on yourself might be the very thing keeping you stuck. We think that being hard on ourselves means that we are driven, or have high standards, but being too tough on yourself is an ineffective approach to any goal you have in life. Being hard on yourself increases stress, decreases results and is a mindset that is driven from self-doubt and insecurity. Learn 10 proven ways to break the pattern of being too hard on yourself, even if you have been hard on yourself your entire life. Get the coaching notes at www.trishblackwell.com/486
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to the Confidence Podcast, your favorite coaching podcast |
| 0:05.2 | ooze in with motivation, inspiration, and confidence to help you boldly take |
| 0:10.4 | action on your dreams. |
| 0:12.8 | I'm your host Trish Blackwell, |
| 0:14.4 | internationally recognized confidence coach, |
| 0:16.6 | best-selling author, and founder of the College of Competence |
| 0:20.3 | the most encouraging place on the internet. |
| 0:23.0 | I teach go-getters in life, how to take their thoughts captive, |
| 0:26.0 | how to step out of the shadows of self-doubt, |
| 0:28.0 | and how to courageously step into their purpose with confidence. |
| 0:34.0 | It's time to pump our confidence muscles and train our thoughts, y'all. |
| 0:38.0 | Let's get started. |
| 0:42.0 | Hey guys, it's Trish Blackwell, and you're listening to the Confidence Podcast. |
| 0:46.8 | This is an episode. |
| 0:48.7 | I think we all need an episode that I wish I had heard 15 years ago and it's an episode for you is |
| 0:57.0 | episode 486. How to stop being so hard on yourself? We're talking about being hard on yourself. |
| 1:05.0 | It doesn't work, why it doesn't work, |
| 1:07.4 | and how to stop. |
| 1:10.3 | Because the reality is that being hard on yourself |
| 1:11.9 | might be the very thing that's keeping you stuck. |
| 1:15.0 | We think that being hard on ourselves means or driven or we have high standards, |
| 1:20.0 | but being too tough on yourself is actually an ineffective approach to any goal you have in life. |
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