480 People Pleasers and the Shame They Hide (with Maggie Nick)
Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression
Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist
4.9 • 882 Ratings
🗓️ 8 April 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Maggie Nick to explore why so many "good kids" grow into adults carrying deep shame, people-pleasing patterns, and fear of disappointing others—and how healing begins with compassion and understanding.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, my loves. It has been a while since I've sat down and recorded a more traditional |
| 0:08.1 | chat audio with you. I've been doing my best here on the podcast to just dive into the |
| 0:15.1 | information, dive in, give you as much high quality evidence-based skills as I can. |
| 0:22.2 | But I've really missed just checking in on you and saying, how are you doing? |
| 0:27.4 | What's going on? |
| 0:29.7 | Is there any tension you're holding in your body? |
| 0:33.2 | Are you being kind to yourself? |
| 0:35.6 | I hope so. |
| 0:37.1 | I just wanted to check in. There has been so much |
| 0:41.2 | happening over here, over at CBT school and in my private practice. We now, as many of you may |
| 0:48.2 | know, we have a YouTube channel, which I am really putting so much time and effort into as well as the podcast. |
| 0:56.8 | I have recently launched a new course, which you may also have known about, called the |
| 1:02.6 | Rumination Reset. This is a course that will help you to stop ruminating. It is all science-based. |
| 1:09.8 | It is me teaching you the exact skills that I teach my |
| 1:12.5 | client. This is a smaller course. It's just a focused solution for a specific problem. |
| 1:19.3 | If you struggle with rumination, if you struggle with overthinking and catastrophizing and |
| 1:25.3 | mental compulsions, please do go over to CBT school.com or you can |
| 1:29.9 | click the link in the show notes and sign up for the Rumination Reset. It is my new favorite little |
| 1:36.8 | baby course. In addition to that, I just wanted to let you know that we are pushing ahead with |
| 1:43.5 | the content here. |
| 1:44.3 | In fact, where I am really considering doubling down and doubling the content I put out |
| 1:49.9 | and really pushing to make sure you get access to actual skills that actually hope, |
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