It's the most wonderful time of the year.

Whether you look forward to shopping for your spouse

or feel intimidated by all of the options,

we're here to help.

We've curated an incredible list of gift ideas

for the two of you to have a very sexy holiday.

Go to One Extraordinary Marriage.com slash sexy to get your list today.

From San Diego, California, this is a One Extraordinary Marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call or text us on the Hug hotline at 858, 87663 or send us an email to hugs at 1 extraordinary marriage.com.

In today's show we're looking at what needs to happen to have the sex talk again and

again what the obstacles are and how you can overcome

them to have a deep sexual connection.

There's an anonymous quote that says when we avoid challenging conversations we trade

short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction.

So just think about that.

We step back and we don't say something, we don't say something, and then years later we see the dysfunction.

Absolutely and so that short-term discomfort and that's what we're going to be

talking about because talking about sex can often feel both you know uncomfortable

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