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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Is there a difference between loving parental guidance, and overreaching parental interference? How can a couple set boundaries with their in-laws? And how can in-laws give their adult children the space they need to establish strong foundations for their marriages?

While many of us are familiar with the verse about leaving and cleaving, the practicalities of doing so can be challenging when there are parents and wider family who long to provide support in an important new phase of life.

Juli invites her friends, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, to speak about why boundaries with in-laws are important, and how they can be established with love.



Guests: Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley

 

Greg and Erin on Instagram: @focusmarriage Greg and Erin on Youtube: @focusonthefamilymarriage

Greg and Erin’s Podcast: Focus on Marriage Podcast

Book: Ready to Wed by Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley

Java with Juli:  #13 Insights on In-Laws

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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designed to make it easier for you to find and share all of our resources on God, relationships,

0:14.6

and sexuality. Now, don't worry, it still has the same content, but it's going to be easier

0:19.9

for you to find what you're looking for.

0:22.0

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0:26.7

we're giving away a free signed copy of one of my books to anyone in the United States

0:31.3

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0:34.2

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0:45.1

Hey friend, this is Julie. I want to welcome you to Java with Julie. This podcast is a listener-supported

0:51.4

outreach of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality.

0:57.5

Well, there are some important shifts that happen when a couple transitions from dating to actually getting married.

1:03.6

There's so many new things that you have to navigate, like who does the laundry and who pays the bills and whose job is it to clean the bathroom?

1:11.9

But beyond those types of things, there's some even deeper things that are taking place.

1:16.5

Really, you're forging a new family.

1:18.3

You're establishing your own values.

1:20.4

You're setting goals as a couple.

1:22.5

And you're deciding overall what your family is going to represent.

1:26.0

Now, that's a very important part of the newly

1:28.0

web process. And you know who sometimes gets in the way? Your own mom or dad. Well, I know what that

1:34.6

experience can be like on both sides of this. Maybe you're a parent of a son or daughter who

1:39.2

just got married and you're struggling to know if and when you should comment on choices or decisions you disagree with.

1:46.3

And if you're that newly married son or daughter, you're trying to figure out if it's ever good

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