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The Kevin Miller Podcast

476: Should you be better than others? – Dr. Kristin Neff

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Kevin Miller

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4.51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 25 July 2017

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Kristin Neff’s has a TED on self-compassion that has over 800k views. Kristin’s book is titled “Self Compassion”, The Proven Power of Being kind to yourself. You can find her at http://self-compassion.org/  What hooked us was her commentary on self-esteem. Zig Ziglar was the king of calling us to the necessity of a healthy self-image, but when Kristin divulged the research of how our culture has gone about achieving self-esteem at the sake of others and what it’s done to all of us, we were floored. Two big focal points you’ll get from this are in relation to, 1) how we tend to equate self-esteem with comparing to or being better than others, and 2) how our self-esteem is conditional. We have better self-esteem…if. This is an interview that will equip you to better address your own self-esteem in a healthy way and empower you to be and do what you need and want to do. Our point here is to bring you tools and resources to help you progress in your life, however, that looks for you. We want to eliminate the things that handicap and limit you. This issue today is huge. I watched Dr. Kristin Neff’s TED talk, then reviewed the book to pull out the big issues, and that is what Tom Ziglar and I discuss with her today. Thanks to HP, Blue Apron and ZipRecruiter for supporting this episode.     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is a Glass Box Media Podcast.

0:06.0

Hello everyone and welcome to the Ziegler show, Planet Earth's source for inspiring your true performance.

0:12.0

I'm your true performance.

0:12.6

I'm your honored host, Kevin Miller.

0:15.6

Today we have episode 476 where Tom Ziegler and I talk with Dr. Kristen Neff.

0:22.8

She is here because my wife, Terry,

0:25.4

had to watch Kristen's Ted Talk for her doctoral studies

0:29.1

and asked me to watch it with her.

0:30.6

That talk now has over 800,000 views. So Kristen wrote a book titled

0:36.1

Self Compassion, the proven power of being kind to yourself. You can find her at self-compassion.org. What hooked me on the talk though was her commentary on

0:50.4

self-esteem and that's really why I brought her here to the Ziegler show.

0:56.0

Now Ziegziegler was the king of calling us to the necessity of a healthy self-image but when

1:01.6

Kristen devolves the research of how our culture has

1:05.2

primarily gone about achieving self-esteem at the sake of others and what it's done

1:10.4

to all of us I was just floored especially in realizing that I too was a victim and a part of this so two big focal points you'll get from this talk are in relation to one how we tend to equate self-esteem with comparing to or being better

1:25.9

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