If you're're, especially if you're home with the kids all day, you're working a seven day job.

And federal labor law dictates that we have to have two 20 minute breaks and a half an hour lunch and an eight hour shift. I mean, so if you're

sleeping for eight hours, which that's negotiable, say you have two eight hour shifts, that's

at least two hours, 20 minutes that you get off, so how are you getting that?

I'm Amy, and I'm Abby, and as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face.

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

We are thrilled to have Arthur G. M. D. M.

done on the podcast today.

Our community read her book, How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids.

In this book, Jansi interweaves storytelling

of her personal struggle with motherhood and

partnership. She also adds a boatload of research and tangible advice.

Abby and I both love the book and our community echoed that sentiment. So Jansi, please introduce yourself for our audience.

Hello, I am, I've written a couple of books for adults and for kids and this one was the hardest

to write but also the most fun and I have lived in Brooklyn for many

years but I recently moved and I'm talking to you from my sister's house

where there's seven people and three cats.

So it's a little chaotic with fun and I write for you know various magazines and newspapers New York Times parenting a lot and I'm

going to stop talking now because I could just go on and on about you know what I do

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