This is Havela Cunnington and this is the Havela Cunnington podcast.

I'm really glad that you're tuning in today.

I think I have a really important thing to talk with you about.

I think this is probably one of those topics that we don't talk about enough.

We don't process enough and it may be one of the most important topics to our success.

Whatever we're trying to succeed in or achieve, I think it might be the most valuable lesson.

Clearly there are spiritual and heart ideas, but I just am struck with

how important this topic is.

I read a quote from John Maxwell about six months ago.

In the moment I read it, it's kind of stayed with me.

Have you done that before where you've read something, watched something, saw something,

and it seems to just pop up every time you're thinking about anything to do with it.

This quote from John Maxwell is, if the process is right, the product is guaranteed.

If the process is right, the product is guaranteed.

When I read it, I remember sitting back in my seat and thinking about that.

Is that true?

Is that really true that if our process is right, then our whole product is guaranteed?

Or if our map is right, our destination is guaranteed?

As I thought about it, I began to take it as a filter to my whole life.

You're saying if my process and my marriage is right, then we being married is guaranteed.

If the process in which I live my parenting out, then the product of my kids,

well, living whole, happy, healthy spiritual lives is guaranteed.

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