#469 From Meh to Mind-Blowing Sex with Dr. Tara

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Education, Sexuality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 3K Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2026

⏱️ 70 minutes

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What's the secret to getting exactly what you want in bed? Join us on this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of unapologetic intimacy with the one and only Dr. Tara, author of How Do You Like It? A Guide to Getting What You Want (In Bed) and host of the Luvbites podcast. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Tara became the go-to expert in the field of sexuality (hint: it involves a passion for sex education and a whole lot of sass) * What inspired her to write a book that's all about empowering you to take control of your desires * The top issues people face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) * Why we settle for mediocre sex (and how to break free from it) * The difference between micro and macro sexual communication (and how to master both for a more fulfilling sex life) * The importance of building sexual self-esteem and confidence (and how to do it) * Practical tools and tips for boosting your erotic life (even in long-term relationships) As a Kinsey-certified sexologist, tenured professor, and award-winning researcher, Dr. Tara is the ultimate authority on all things sex. With her expertise and infectious energy, you'll be empowered to take charge of your desires and create a more fulfilling sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock your full erotic potential! And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to find out how to get your hands on Dr. Tara's book and connect with her for more sexpert advice. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! To learn more go to https://www.luvbites.co Get her book on Amazon here Follow her: IG: @luvebites.co TikTok: @luvbites.co Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Learn more about the fabulous Reid Mihalko here: https://reidaboutsex.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	So that's why I'm saying when it comes to sex, like you need to learn all these things and it's your job to do it.
0:06.1	It's not the other person's job.
0:08.2	When to people that concern that, you know, concern about their job and concern about fulfilling that 70% get together, the 30% is easy.
0:19.2	I'm Amy. I'm April. Certified sex educators, sex experts of the year, and best-selling authors.
0:26.1	And we're on a mission to help you have more spicy, connected, and amazing, shameless sex.
0:32.1	Welcome to the shameless sex revolution.
0:40.6	To learn. Sameless Sex Revolution. We're so close. We're making sex and relationships shameless.
0:43.7	To learn more, go to shamelesssex.com. And for 15% off some of our favorite sex toys, use code shameless sex at pure pleasure shop.com.
0:51.3	You were listening to a pleasure podcast.
0:57.4	For more from our sex podcast collective, visit pleasurepodcasts.com. Well, hello everyone. Hey, everybody. Welcome back to the shameless sex
1:03.7	podcast. It's been a little while since April and I have been together because she's been on the road
1:08.8	for over two weeks. Yeah, two and a half weeks.
1:11.5	This is the first time we've recorded together in 2026. We've released episodes, but we haven't been together in 2026. Also, you and I see each other almost all the time. So like when two weeks goes by, I'm like, what the fuck is going on? It was wild. And I was in L.A. for the Ex-Piz trade show, which is Pleasure Products Trade Show with Pipe Dream.
1:28.9	We were exhibiting there and was at the awards show.
1:32.1	I watched videos on Instagram and all the grams and all things.
1:35.5	And Eric.
1:36.7	Yeah.
1:37.0	So the host of Brent from Moneros.
1:39.1	Eric from Slickwood hosting.
1:41.3	There was like full on fireworks and dancing. Yes, there were pirate techniques.
1:46.0	And all these hot, musly, mostly gay men that I understand dancing that a choreographed dance
1:53.0	because Brent was in a Filipino boy band in the 90s. No, I remember this night. Yeah, I went to his
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