From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the

guestwork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony de la Renso, your co-host along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call on the hug hotline at 858-765663, or send us an email to

Hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com. In today's show we're talking about

oral sex for him and for her and the role it plays within your marriage.

And there's an anonymous quote that says oral sex can be foreplay, the main course, or the dessert.

And you know, honestly, we couldn't agree more, which is why we're going to do this show today and you know we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and a hug is an opportunity for you to hear from someone else in the one family and just the amazing things that are happening in their

marriage and this week's hug is sponsored by Lola and trust me you're going to

want to hear more about the way that this brand is changing things in the

bedroom we're going to share about them a little later in the show.

This hug though comes from an Instagram message that we received and it says this eep oh actually

this was an email not an Instagram message because she starts off saying this email is long overdue but last year my

husband and I completed the seven days of sex challenge I first discovered your

podcast after our second son was born I was struggling with finding my desire for sex again.

Initially, I couldn't get enough of your podcast

and I finally shared it with my husband,

but then kids and life happened,

and although I was listening, I wasn implementing our sex life was okay our marriage was good but I knew we were capable of more

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