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Today we're talking with Bobby Umar. We're going to talk about how people decide what to do with themselves or what they want to do with their lives.

And I'm going to throw a listener question at him first right off the bat, something we really never do on the show, but I thought he'd be a good person to handle that one.

And of course talking about why our path of success is often defined by other people and how to get authentically punched in the forehead by yours truly.

So enjoy this one with Bobby Umar.

So tell us what you do in one sentence.

Sure, I'm a professional speaker, a social media influencer and a connection curator helps loss leaders for an authentic path of passion purpose and turn them into branded thought leaders.

Okay, so how does that affect the every man and the every woman listening here because I think a lot of folks go, okay, I heard a lot of cool buzzwords and what do you do again?

Well, I think for the most part, it's about helping people forward the right leadership path that makes sense for them and also taking them to the next level.

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