I was in a conversation this week where my manager was doing this coffee chat with all of us at the beginning of our team meeting and asked everyone to go around and share something that they did this past weekend.

This is a totally innocuous seeming question and people will share it about their kids' birthday parties and baby showers and all these things and I lied. I lied about what I did this past weekend because what I did this weekend was spend time with my husband and his partner and we all did something together and it was really

meaningful but I act like I hung out with some friends and what it does and this is

something I've told people,

it makes me feel the way I felt when I was still closeted

as a pansexual.

It makes me feel like I'm still worried,

and this was true, that I'm gonna get seen on a date and someone at work is going

to think I'm doing something immoral or wrong and those things that fear that shame

that anxiety affects how I show up at work.

It affects the way I relate to my colleagues,

it affects my sense of being authentic,

and it's making it harder and harder for me to feel like my best selves here at work.

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I'm Emily and I'm Dedicher.

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Fongs I know I did. On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast we're continuing on with

part two of our two-part series about coming out as being non-monogamous in the workplace.

So in the past episode, just as a quick recap, we talked about some of the ways to evaluate the risks that you might have in coming out,

some things to understand about that, as well as exploring why you might want to, and hopefully

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