#457 How To Build a Flourishing (not Flawless) Sex Life You'll Both Love
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 27 March 2023
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Take the guess work out of your sex life and learn how to tell (or show) your spouse what feels good in the bedroom.
Guest: Dr. Corey Allan
Show notes:
Apply to join the Coaching Intensive for Wives Struggling with Sexual Pain
The "Passionately Married Podcast" with Dr. Corey and Pam Allan
Java #407 Masturbation: The No.1 Question You're Asking Us (exclusive content)
Masturbation: Is It Wrong? (en Espanol) (Juli's blog)
What's OK in the Bedroom? (Juli's blog)
Your Sexual Differences Can Make You Better Lovers (Juli's blog)
Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm, and Intimacy (Juli's blog)
The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex by Cliff & Joyce Penner*
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I've said this in my marriage, I would love for you to be a little more available section. |
| 0:07.4 | That's just an invitation. I don't know if she'll go there or not, but that's different than me saying, |
| 0:11.7 | why don't you ever want to have sex? And then she might follow up with a question, well, what does that |
| 0:16.1 | practically look like? Right. And then we can actually start having some tangible conversations about what our |
| 0:23.2 | sex life looks like. Because again, this is as unique as the people involved in what you want it |
| 0:28.9 | to be. |
| 0:33.0 | Hey, friend. Welcome to Job with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery and thanks for joining me today. |
| 0:38.9 | This podcast is a listener's supported outreach of authentic intimacy and ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. |
| 0:46.7 | Well, the voice you just heard is from Dr. Corey Allen and he's joining me today to talk about some of the foundational differences between men and women, how they play |
| 0:55.7 | out in relationships, and how you and your spouse can work through the challenges in your sex |
| 1:00.4 | life. Corey and his wife Pam are the co-hosts of the podcast Passionately Married. He's a |
| 1:06.7 | practicing licensed marriage and family therapist, and he also does life and relationship |
| 1:10.8 | coaching. Now, just a heads up. Today, we're going to talk through some practical and graphic |
| 1:16.4 | questions that couples ask about sexual intimacy. We will be discussing things like the importance |
| 1:22.3 | of a wife's climax, how to navigate sexual differences, what it looks like to recover well when sex doesn't go as you hoped it would, and how to respond when your spouse wants to try something that you would rather not do. |
| 1:35.9 | But before you head to the coffee shop, I want to let you know about a new resource we're offering at authentic intimacy called coaching intensives. |
| 1:44.0 | These are small groups on Zoom led by an |
| 1:46.6 | expert coach on a particular topic. Coaching intensives are just one of the ways we want to help |
| 1:51.9 | you experience God's healing on your personal journey towards sexual wholeness. These groups offer |
| 1:57.3 | more specific help on a focused subject than what may be available through one of our |
| 2:02.2 | other resources like our Job With Julie podcast or online book studies. But our next coaching |
| 2:07.8 | intensive is called Journey of the Courageous led by Christian sex therapist Debbie Wade. |
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