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Did your research consistently find that most couples have sex less often than they want to?

Yes. And like, what percentage of couples would that be true for?

I don't know that I've run that number, but I would say it's the vast majority.

The vast majority.

Hey friend, welcome to Java with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery, and thanks for joining me today.

This podcast is an outreach of AuthenticNBC, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for

sexuality. Well, today we're going to talk about something that is super common in marriage,

and that's having a mismatch sex drive. And as you just heard in that clip, the vast majority

of couples are having a lot less sex than both of them want to. And that's according to a

national survey that you'll hear more about today from my guest, Shanti Feldhon, and Dr. Michael

Sitesma. We've got lots of encouragement and helpful information to help you close that gap

between you and your spouse. Shanti is an author, a social researcher and speaker. She has a

graduate degree from Harvard and a handful of best-selling books under her belt, including her

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