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Kyle Kingsbury Podcast

#448 The Art & Science of Human Connection w/ Michael Trainer

Kyle Kingsbury Podcast

Kyle Kingsbury

Fitness, Health & Fitness, Health & Fitness:fitness

4.71.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 March 2026

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

Kyle Kingsbury welcomes back Michael Trainer for a wide-ranging conversation about nature, healing, rites of passage, and connection. Trainer recounts being violently jumped at 12 in Spain, developing obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and choosing extreme “exposure therapy” by moving to Sri Lanka during civil war, where he was mentored by a seventh-generation healer in a secret Ayurvedic shamanic tradition and witnessed trance, ceremony, and what he describes as inexplicable phenomena. He discusses subsequent men’s work and grief practices, including guidance from Martín Prechtel and a four-year men’s group, plus synchronistic experiences with animals and indigenous ceremonies. Trainer introduces his forthcoming book, “Resonance: The Art and Science of Human Connection,” using music and coherence to address modern loneliness and help people “tune” themselves and find their community, while Kyle also shares about his “Kingdom Within” community and shares a plant-based approach to Texas cedar allergies.   Connect with Michael Trainer here: Instagram All Links   From Kyle: The Community is coming! Click here to learn more   Our Sponsors: Let’s level up your nicotine routine with Lucy. Go to Lucy.co/KKP and use promo code (KKP) to get 20% off your first order. Lucy offers FREE SHIPPING and has a 30-day refund policy if you change your mind. These are the b3 bands I was talking about. They are amazing, I highly recommend incorporating them into your movement practice.   Connect with Kyle: I'm back on Instagram, come say hey @kylekingsbu Twitter: @kingsbu Our Farm Initiative: @gardenersofeden.earth Odysee: odysee.com/@KyleKingsburypod Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Kyle-Kingsbury Kyle's Website: www.kingsbu.com - Gardeners of Eden site If you enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe & leave a 5-star review with your thoughts!

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the podcast. We've got my good buddy, an old friend Michael Traynor in the house.

0:05.9

Michael Traynor was on this podcast many years ago when I first got to On It, I believe.

0:11.1

Out of Venice, I think he was living. So a really good crew out there back in the day. And I think Michael's coming here. So we rehash. You don't have to go back and listen to the old podcast. I'm like, give us the quick report of what your life's work was. And we go freaking deep in this podcast. His story and what he's

0:28.0

been up to has been absolutely incredible. He's been on one hell of a journey since we last spoke.

0:34.1

And I can't wait to see what this dude has written as an author. I mean, I'm literally chomping at the bit as a guy who devours books. I have had a lot of friends write books and fortunately they've been pretty damn good books, at least not boring. They've been informative, you know, and they've been funny. This one I think is going to hit, I think it's going to strike the heart like an arrow. So super, super proud of

0:54.3

Michael. He's an awesome person. Tall, too. He's fucking taller than I am. Just a great guy, great guy all the way through and through, and he's doing great work in the world. Share this with your friends and enjoy. Michael Traynor. Let's go. Michael Traynor, the return. Thank you for coming on the podcast. This is so cool getting you have you here at the farm for the first time.

1:13.8

Man, I've been hearing about it, and I'm honored to be here, I'll say. I love seeing you deeply immersed in nature. Is there no better place? There's no better place. No. It's church. Yeah. I mean, even here, like in the office, I love this office. To me, it's a library

1:28.2

more than it's an office. You know, it's like the study. Yeah. I called the office, but it's the study, you know, if we were playing clue. But you see the plants in here are just like, I just love these guys. I had these vines with the first, for some of the first house plants we got, we moved to Texas.

1:41.4

We're these guys right here.

1:43.0

Yeah, they're super healthy.

1:44.0

I mean, I think that's the thing, right?

1:45.8

These are like plants, they're super healthy. I mean, I think

1:44.4

that's the thing, right? These are like plants, and I think we as well, we're kind of like

1:49.9

thermostats, you know, for our environment. And it's like when you see this plant and it's shiny

1:53.9

and happy, you know it's in a good place. I feel like with people, unfortunately, we don't

1:59.5

pay as much attention, but this is well,

2:02.3

well maintained and well loved. That's for sure. Yeah. Well, the nature piece is the best part of it.

2:08.1

I think that's what I've got into is like even in an office space or whatever you want to call it,

2:13.4

bring a nature in. Yeah. It's such a big component to my sense of well-being, getting to hang with these little guys. They're here working with our heart chakros right at now as we're shooting the shit and catching up. Yeah, it's amazing how much plants just affect our overall, I feel like, psychology, but also just our physiology, right? We're talking a little earlier about allergens. Like I I just escaped. Part of the reason I left Los Angeles was because of the mold. And the plants were what saved me. The plants were, you know, kept me in a good way. Yeah. But without that, I was stuffed. So you just moved here? Is that correct? Yeah. Okay, in the process? Yeah, I'm in the process. To be

2:51.3

frank, actually, this is quite beautiful because I've been in the proverbial cave, not a literal

2:56.1

cave, but proverbial cave for the last few years writing this book. And so to me, I've been in my

3:03.6

own little space. I've gone like deeply internal. I've done some deep work as well, some medicine work. But yeah, this is, honestly, seeing you is kind of my first little coming out of the cave moment. What a fucking honor. Yeah, man. That's great. Well, I just feel like you're such a heart-centered, beautiful human, you know? And so, yeah, it's always an honor to be in your presence. And I was like, all right, you know, if I'm going to come out of the cave, let's go see Kyle. But yes, long story short, I've been on a bit of a walkabout. Fuck, that's fantastic. We're going to dive into that as like the meat and potatoes of this podcast, but give people, you're a, it's kind of hard to say what you do. It's kind of hard

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