446: How to Stop Pointing the Finger

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 29 June 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Do you find that you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over, even though you're fighting about different things? If this is you, you won't want to miss this episode! Today's show is all about the negative cycle. Our hosts work to help couples organize what is happening and how couples can stop pointing the finger at each other and blame the cycle instead. Through this lens couples can feel more security and confidence in their interactions rather than thinking they have to solve each and every issue that comes up. If we don't start to see the cycle, the problems can feel endless and overwhelming! Make sure you stay on till the end to get George's homework assignment and head on over to our IG @foreply_sextherapypodcast and let us know your thoughts in the comments. Are you looking for more beyond our podcast? We're enrolling now for our couples retreat in October. Therapists interested in incorporating EFT and sex in the cycle? Join us in Nashville in January for our next therapist training. Visit www.foreplayrst.com to sign up today! Check out our sponsors (and support the podcast!): Addyi.com -- FDA-approved treatment for certain women with low libido! Uberlube.com -- Laurie's favorite lubricant! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:59.2	Okay School of Love, we are going to be talking today about how to think about your cycle
1:05.9	emotionally, organize you, and then help you find kind of common ground with your
1:11.8	partner. Nice, this is the whole key to what we do as therapist in EFT, right?
1:17.6	We're trying to get a couple to externalize the problem as the cycle they fall into. Just not, stop pointing a finger at each other.
1:25.0	Both people think if the other person changes, they'd be better off and they're right.
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