From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Marriage Show.

We're being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call on the Hug hotline at 858-765663 or send us an email to

hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com.

In today's show we talk about the side of foreplay that often gets ignored, what men need.

And as we talk about foreplay, I want you to think about this quote attributed to Anonymous that says,

don't rush through foreplay.

Play with each other until you can't take it anymore.

And can I put a little side note on that?

Just for the husbands out there.

When you get to that place where you can't take it anymore and you penetrate, there's penetrates, and you have

quick ejaculation, it's all good.

It's all good because you are so heightened up.

The likelihood you're going to be able to hold back. Hey, and if you are good for you,

but I'm just telling you from a guy who's been there,

it's okay.

She's had a good time.

Your wife's enjoyed it.

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