439 - We Have All Violated Consent - Listener Q&A with Kitty Stryker Pt 1

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9 • 970 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Today we have a special guest who has been on our show before! Kitty Stryker has been working on defining and creating a consent culture for over 13 years through her writing, workshops, and website consentculture.com. She's the editor of "Ask: Building Consent Culture," author of "Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook," and is especially interested in bringing conversations about consent out of the bedroom into everyday life. In her copious free time, Kitty works as a street medic for direct actions, plays Dungeons and Dragons, volunteers at the local animal shelter, and cares for her two cats. She identifies as queer, asexual, sober, anarchist, and femme. Kitty joins us today to help answer some of our listener questions in another Q&A episode. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Consent as a thing between sexual partners has been a huge focus with like maybe
0:10.9	a dip into romantic partnership and maybe a dip into romantic partnership
0:13.2	and maybe a dip into like parent-child relationships
0:17.7	when we talk about sharing, when we talk about,
0:21.1	oh, well, you've gotten to play with this for a while, now it's time to let somebody else play with it.
0:25.4	When we talk about you can't take your pants off in the grocery store, you know?
0:31.1	These are conversations about consent and like negotiating not just your own
0:36.9	consent but the consent of other people it's just we don't often talk about that being
0:42.0	consent like do you consent to this. It's more of like a what is and isn't
0:46.8	appropriate. I kind of wish we talked more about it as a consent thing and like actually named it as that because I think that that then
0:56.3	opens us up to understanding those things more when it comes to a sexual or romantic context
1:01.7	later on.
1:03.0	Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.
1:07.0	I'm Jace.
1:08.0	I'm Emily.
1:09.0	And I'm Denaker.
1:10.0	We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.
1:17.0	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I did. Force a meter for myself to fix.
1:40.0	On this episode of the Multie-amory podcast, we are diving into an amazing conversation
1:46.0	with Kitty Stryker about consent and difficult consent questions.
1:51.0	We did not intend this this but there was so much
1:54.9	amazing content in this that we decided to make this into a two-part episode so that
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