From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the

guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call on the Hug hotline at 858-765663 or send us an email to hugs at 1Xordinary marriage.com.

In today's show we talk about what happens to the two of you when you choose to do the opposite of what you feel like doing in difficult situations.

Mmm, difficult situations and what you do.

Oh, it's going to be a great show and as we start this show I want you

to think about this quote from the Dalai Lama that says in order to carry a positive action

we must develop here a positive vision and when you're in those difficult situations it can be

hard to first come up with a positive vision so you can have the action but we're

going to be digging into that so deeply on today's show. But now we start each

and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and this week's hug is sponsored by Organify

We love the Organify products and can't wait to share more about them later in the show

Now for those of you they're like Tony

and Lisa what's this thing called a hug? Well a hug's an opportunity for you to

hear from someone else in the one family, someone whose marriages is seeing

change and growth and this

week's hug comes from a Facebook message that we received.

And first and foremost I want to just say to all the new

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