I think again it is really important for us to understand that this doesn't just come from evil.

It doesn't just come from being a bad person, that when bad behavior comes out of us, there is a reason for it.

And chances are it goes back to our childhood or a previous relationship where that behavior did help us to survive.

It's not for the purpose of justifying it and saying it's totally okay for you to use this behavior

whenever you want, but I do think it's important to be able to understand why we sometimes turn to some weird

strategies to get the things that we want from the people that we love.

Welcome to the Multiamery Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the

status quo of the past.

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,

casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you. Fongs I know I did.

Forson made up for myself to fit.

On this episode of the multi-amory podcast, we're asking the question,

What if you're the toxic one?

Wait, no, don't switch off your podcast player just yet.

We're going to dive a little bit deeper into what toxic really means.

We're going to explore some common bad behaviors, why

they happen, and provide some tangible ways to make positive changes without shame and

without blame. I know that might be hard to believe.

Fingers crossed, right?

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