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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

435 - Why Won't My Partner Sext Me? Listener Q&A with Leanne Yau

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Sexuality, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2023

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

We're back with another Q&A episode, and this time we're joined by Leanne Yau, aka Poly Philia! Leanne is a polyamory educator and sex-positive influencer. She creates and curates humorous and educational memes, tips, videos, and other bite-size content on non-monogamy, queer relationships, and sex positivity, and was named #1 in Cosmopolitan's '10 Polyamory Experts to Follow on TikTok'. Leanne has been actively non-monogamous since she was 17 years old, and her content draws from her own experiences as a bisexual, neurodivergent, Chinese woman based in the UK. Leanne also launched the Happy Polydays podcast, narrated a number of polyamory audiobooks, created the #PolyamoryTipoftheDay series, and provides non-monogamous peer support to individuals and couples across the globe. She is currently in training to become a polyamory-friendly therapist, and is on track to qualify in 2026. She was named #1 in Cosmopolitan's '10 Polyamory Experts to Follow on TikTok', and Men’s Health named her as one of ‘60 Top Influencers Who Are Worth the Follow in 2023.If you'd like your question featured on one of our future Q&A episodes, consider joining our Patreon community! Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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One thing that really kind of stood out to me about this question, you know, how this person kind of mentioned how they feel like they need to kind of apologize to the way that they are kind of biologically.

0:14.1

You know, and I think this is like as a result of, you know, like a society that is kind of built like a certain way to accommodate

0:20.2

neurotypical kind of, kind of, kind of, as I prefer to say say like neuroconforming kind of people which kind of you know the how this person's brain

0:26.9

works is just like a different way it's not wrong it's you know and it's and it's fine and I think if you're

0:32.2

dating someone who makes you feel bad about something that's out of your control or if someone makes you feel like a burden or an inconvenient like that's kind of probably not someone that you know you really kind of want to be with long time because they'll always

0:43.7

see your disability as something that's like separate to you rather than something that's kind of like

0:48.4

part of like who you are.

0:50.3

Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

0:56.6

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the

1:01.6

status quo of the past.

1:03.0

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,

1:07.0

casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

1:10.0

we see you, and we're here for you.

1:13.0

Fongs I know I did.

1:20.0

Force made up for myself to fix.

1:27.0

On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast,

1:31.0

we're doing another Q&A episode, this time with Polyamorous content creator

1:36.0

Leanne Yao. If you would like to submit your own questions to be on the show,

1:40.4

become one of our patrons at Patreon.com

1:43.0

multi-amory and in our private discord and Facebook groups we put out calls for

1:48.7

questions about once a month for these Q&A episodes.

1:52.0

Lian Nia, our guest today, is also known as Polyphelia,

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