#433: Can You Be Gay and Follow Jesus? with Greg Coles
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2022
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Summary
Greg Coles shares why he doesn't love the controversy surrounding the title of his book Single, Gay, Christian, yet why he's grateful for the conversations that have come from it. (And, spoiler alert: Experiencing same-sex attraction does not preclude you from following Jesus.)
Stay tuned over the next two weeks to learn more from Christopher Yuan and to hear Juli's thoughts on these conversations.
Guest: Greg Coles
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| 0:00.0 | Whereas single gay Christian leaves so little to the imagination. |
| 0:05.0 | It highlights three really significant components of my experience |
| 0:10.0 | as they collaborate with one another in sometimes awkward ways. |
| 0:14.0 | Even though I probably would not on my own have tried to dredge up all the controversy |
| 0:19.0 | the title has sparked for myself. I'm grateful for the |
| 0:23.0 | conversation that has come by way of some of that controversy. |
| 0:31.9 | Hey friend. Welcome to Java with Julie. I'm Julie Slahery, and I'm so glad that you've joined me today. |
| 0:38.5 | Java with Julie is a listener-supported outreach of Authentic and MC, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. |
| 0:46.6 | The next three weeks on Java with Julie, we're going to tackle a difficult topic. We're going to address what discipleship looks like for Christians who experience |
| 0:55.5 | same-sex attraction. Now, if you listen regularly to this podcast, you'll know that we don't |
| 1:01.0 | shy away from the hard subjects, and that means conversations around things that sometimes don't |
| 1:06.3 | have a crystal clear answer. In fact, these next two Java with Juliet conversations are with two |
| 1:12.4 | Christian men who have both experienced sexual desire for other men, but who would disagree, |
| 1:18.0 | for example, on whether the label gay Christian is an appropriate one for them to use. |
| 1:23.3 | Now, these conversations might hit you personally, or they may apply to someone you know, |
| 1:28.0 | whether or not you can personally relate to this exact question. |
| 1:32.0 | Remember that it's truly a challenge for every single one of us to grapple with the question, |
| 1:36.6 | how does knowing Jesus Christ as my Lord transform every part of me? |
| 1:41.8 | After we hear from these two men, I'm going to devote an episode to sharing my |
| 1:45.3 | own thoughts on these questions and respond to some of the things that we've heard. So stick with us. |
| 1:50.9 | My guest for today is Greg Coles. Greg is a senior research fellow at the Center for Faith, |
| 1:56.5 | sexuality, and Gender. In his first book, Single Gay Christian, Greg won the affections of his readers with incredibly personal and hopeful prose as he told his story of being a boy and a young man who loved Jesus, but also sexually was attracted to other men. |
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