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High Capacity – Nervous System Regulation, Stress Management, Burnout Recovery, Somatic Tools, Anxiety, Boundaries, Overwhelm

431 - Stop Trying & Start Doing. The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything with Carla Ondrasik

High Capacity – Nervous System Regulation, Stress Management, Burnout Recovery, Somatic Tools, Anxiety, Boundaries, Overwhelm

Michelle Grosser – Inspired by Mel Robbins, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and Dr. Becky Kennedy

Education, Time Management, Anxiety, Productivity, Nervous System, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Emotional Regulation, Parenting, Somatic Tools, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Overwhelm, Work-life Balance, Burnout, Mindset

4.9538 Ratings

🗓️ 27 January 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

You know that moment where you keep telling yourself you’re “trying”… and somehow months go by and nothing actually changes? Today we’re calling out the sneakiest productivity trap of all: the word try. I’m joined by Carla Ondrasik, author of Stop Trying, who breaks down why “trying” keeps you stuck in your head — and why doing is a totally different energy (and outcome). In this episode, we’re diving into: Trying vs. doing: why trying is mental, doing is physical, and your brain hates vague ...

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0:00.0

Welcome to Alive and Well, the podcast for the new era of high achievers.

0:07.8

You're done burning out and you're ready to lead, work, and live in a rhythm that honors

0:14.5

both your brilliance and your body. I'm your host, Michelle Grocer. I'm a trial attorney turned nervous system strategist,

0:23.4

and I've lived the burnout story. I know what it's like to chase your goals at the expense of

0:29.1

your well-being. And I also know it doesn't have to be that way. Here, we're redefining success. It's where productivity feels peaceful,

0:41.2

boundaries feel like freedom, and energy comes from within. Each week, I'll share practical

0:49.0

tools for nervous system regulation, time mastery, and somatic strategies so you can show up with clarity,

0:57.5

calm, and confidence in every part of your life. Because you, my friend, were given a spirit

1:05.1

of power, love, and a sound mind. So here's to life and living it fully. This is the path to feeling alive and well.

1:17.5

Let's dive in. Hey guys, it's Michelle here. If you have ever found yourself saying, I'm going to try to do it.

1:24.9

Or I'm going to try to get it done or I'm really going to try to do it

1:27.5

differently this year.

1:29.9

And maybe it feels like you just can't seem to get there.

1:32.4

I think this conversation today is really going to land for you because when we say we are

1:37.3

trying, that sounds really responsible and it sounds like we're committed and I think it can

1:43.8

even sound virtuous.

1:44.9

But what if trying, the act of trying, the thought of trying is actually the thing

1:50.7

that's keeping you stuck?

1:52.3

It's an interesting question.

1:54.3

And today I'm joined by someone who has spent decades watching different people and the people who try and then the people who do

2:05.3

and the results speak for themselves. On the show today, we have Carla on Drassik. She's spent

2:12.1

over 20 years at the highest levels of the music industry. She's helped artists move from potential to perform it.

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