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I could not be asked to put my makeup on today. I just like did not want to. I don't want to I don't want to I don't care and if you're watching this as a video as opposed to listening to this as a podcast, you will see that I don't have makeup on.

And I thought what better time then now to talk about accepting yourself and your looks. I've talked about it before. I'm in a moment right now I'm nine months pregnant.

So this isn't even the cutest I've felt. My hair is up, it's not out, I'm not hiding behind any blankets, as in like, what I call them is like blankets, like when my hair is out, it's a blanket for me, like when I'm wearing like a nice shirt, maybe I'm just wearing a black vest, maybe when I'm feeling super fit

and active, but right now I'm nine months pregnant, so the water retention is real.

And I thought, wow, what a better time than now than to talk about something I've wanted to talk about often, and that is how to love the way you look.

Because we've talked about how to be confident, we've talked about how to come across this, how to make him upset, how to do this, that,

and the other thing. But the reality is, as a woman in this world, and as a man if you're watching

this, it's about guys too. If you don't love the way you appear, it's sometimes really hard to move

through this world in a way that is confident. I don't care how you look at it. It is hard.

And you sometimes see people who embrace their features like I don't know for example

Sarah Jessica Parker she gets slated or used to get slated for being an average looking

human being to me she's quite attractive but to other people she's an average

looking human being.

And look at her, she thinks she's all that, but then you watch Sex in the City and you think,

wow, she is so enigmatic and so charismatic and there's something about her that is just so incredible that you want a bit of that because it's not always about changing yourself or amping yourself up or being the perfect version but it's about embracing those features. But we must go on to ask which features do we embrace and what do we change because I find there is two

schools of thought that are very opposite one school of thought is

accept yourself doesn't matter how unhealthy or healthy you are doesn't matter

if you have got yourself to a place where you look like a toad because of your unhealthy lifestyle If anyone's offended because they have toads I apologize but that is just what came to my mind I guess it's from watching Thumbalina when I was young and she's like Thumbolina and the Toad is the unattractive one.

I don't know. But anyway, is it your lifestyle or is it your natural inboard features because I really don't think, I don't know, correct me if I'm wrong wrong but I don't think there is ugly I think

there is just neglect I think there is lack of self-love and I think there is a lack of

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