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He's a hero,

he's a hero,

he's a narcissist. He's a narcissist. We hear about he's a narcissist constantly. Any behavior we don't like he's a narcissist. We don't like he's a narcissist. We don't like how he responded to you or goes to

do you or did something. He's a narcissist. Everyone, their cat and dog and

and mouse is a narcissist. At the end of the day I'm going to be referring

it to NPD, which is narcissistic personality disorder as opposed to he's an artistist in this episode because I think it's just difficult for human beings to diagnose everybody and I have a video on my

YouTube channel which discusses the fact that instead of going around diagnosing everybody and their uncle and mother and father as a narcissist,

basically anyone who does you wrong as an narcissist, one must understand this simple fact. If you are attracting abusive people, if people in your life are constantly abusing you, you are a magnet to that. And I'm not saying it's your fault. I'm not trying to

get esoteric on you. I'm not trying to victim blame. I'm not trying to do any of those things. I am simply letting you know that if it's

constant in your life that people are mistreating you, then there is a layer of you that either enjoys playing the victim and by enjoys I mean it serves you

somehow. Maybe it gets your friends to listen to you. Maybe it gets you to feel validated in some way. Maybe it gets you to enjoy a certain melancholy or a sadness in

your life and I know that sounds really strange but some people thrive of it

especially if you had it in your childhood.

Many people with a secure attachment style,

self-confidence and self-worth

do not entertain narcissistic people in their life,

not because they're some kind of prolific psychologist

or they've done something incredible,

is just simply the fact that they don't validate

the narciss's behavior.

And in this episode, I want to go through 10 or so traits

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