427. SOLO: The One Shift That Changed Everything for Me: The Spiritual Art of Not Giving a F*ck

The Balanced Blonde // Soul On Fire

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Balancedblondespiritualitywellness, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

There comes a moment in every healing journey where you realize: you can’t keep betraying yourself just to be liked. That’s what I was doing for YEARS. In this episode, I’m diving deep into the one shift that changed absolutely everything for me — boundaries, baby. The spiritual art of not giving a f*ck. From letting go of toxic friendships to choosing peace over saying yes to all of the people/friendships/things that no longer served me, I share what it really looks like to stop abandoning yourself and start living in full energetic integrity. As a born & raised people pleaser, this shift has been HUGE.

I share personal stories throughout & we talk about the nervous system science behind people-pleasing, the spiritual truth about self-respect, and the raw, unfiltered moments that got me here. If you’ve ever felt guilty for saying no, terrified to disappoint someone, or addicted to being the “nice one,” this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the rules. You came here to be free, not palatable — and your soul knows it.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a Dear Media production.
0:09.1	Hey guys, it's Jordan Younger, your host of the Balance Blonde Soul on Fire podcast.
0:14.3	Here we go deep on all things, astrology, awakening, wellness, motherhood, channeling, aliens, and so much more. We have deep conversations.
0:23.9	We go to other realms. It's a lot of fun. So stick around. Let's dive on in. I cannot wait to connect.
0:34.6	Hello, my loves. Welcome back to the show. I'm so happy that you're here. I have some fun updates for you.
0:42.8	Just personal life updates and cool things. And then we are going to get into a solo topic that I've wanted to record for quite a while now, which is the one change that I have made that has
0:56.3	drastically improved and evolved my life. So I'm super excited to talk to you guys about that.
1:03.3	And it'll be a fun one. We're just going to chit chat. I am loving the new format of the
1:10.1	podcast where we are focusing on solos because this is what we're
1:14.8	here for. I have said this a couple of times before and I will say it again. But after hosting the
1:21.0	podcast for the last nine and a half years, there's only so many conversations you can have before it can start to feel a little
1:29.7	repetitive. And although I love my guests and we have a ton of really amazing guest interviews coming up,
1:38.3	I'm mostly continuing the podcast and I'm mostly here because I just want to connect with you guys.
1:44.7	I want to do deep tives on specific topics. I want to interview people that I'm truly
1:52.2	obsessed with and that are my life idols. And I just want to go deeper and deeper with you.
1:59.3	We have all been on such a journey of evolution
2:03.1	together over the last decade and I'm honored to keep it going. So a couple life updates
2:09.4	before we dive into everything else. Number one, I got new teeth. I did veneers with
2:16.8	Dr. Saleh, who was on this podcast a couple months ago
2:21.2	after he did my mom's veneers. And this is something that I've wanted to do for a long time.
2:27.2	I got a lot of messages from people saying, why would you get veneers? You already had great teeth.
2:33.0	I don't get it. All this kind of stuff.
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