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The James Altucher Show

427 - Lori Gottlieb: When To See a Therapist (And When Not To)

The James Altucher Show

James Altucher

Education, Business

4.62.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2019

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and the author of an upcoming book called "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." She also writes a column in The Atlantic called "Dear Therapist." This episode is sort of a behind-the-scenes. Because Lori tells me what therapists really think about their patients, how they might deal with situation X vs. situation Y. And she also talked to me about things she's noticed about people in general. Like how we don't set high enough standards for ourselves. And what we can do to improve. This episode will make you reflect on the areas of your life that aren't working. So you can stop feeling stuck.  I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast.    Thanks so much for listening! If you like this episode, please subscribe to "The James Altucher Show" and rate and review wherever you get your podcasts: Apple Podcasts Stitcher iHeart Radio Spotify   Follow me on Social Media: YouTube Twitter Facebook Linkedin Instagram ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltuchershow.com------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsiHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on social media:YouTubeTwitterFacebookLinkedIn See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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0:00.0

This isn't your average business podcast and he's not your average host.

0:06.4

This is the James Altiger Show on the Choose Yourself Network.

0:10.4

Today on the James Altiger Show.

0:15.4

Every therapist goes to a therapist, right?

0:17.8

Are you required to go to a therapist?

0:19.4

We are to get licensed.

0:20.9

We have to do a certain number of hours of therapy.

0:23.9

I mean, I do all the things with my therapist that my patients do with me.

0:28.2

But what do you mean?

0:29.2

All the things like you want your therapist to like you.

0:32.2

It's a relationship.

0:34.2

Right.

0:35.2

And it's stressful because at first it feels, well, here's what I'll ask you about.

0:41.7

So at first it feels really fake to me.

0:43.7

Like I'm paying somebody maybe a lot of money to listen to my problems.

0:49.2

And I'm really worried.

0:50.2

Are they going to just be bored?

0:51.7

Are they going to think these aren't really problems at all?

0:55.2

What's the therapist thinking?

0:56.7

Yeah.

0:57.7

I mean, I think that therapists is trying to say, why is this person telling me this?

1:01.2

What is the reason for this story?

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