From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony De Lorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

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In today's show we talk about the destructive nature of comparison and how you can refocus on your marriage.

And as we're preparing for the show, I found this quote attributed to Anonymous that says,

Every minute you spend wishing you had someone else's life

is a minute spent wasting yours. Mm-hmm. Just let that rest on you for just a second.

And all I'm going to say though too when

Elisa brought that one up to me I was like ooh that that pierced me a bit too

it's convicting all around and you know we're gonna dig super deep into that on this week's show but before we do

those of you that have been listening for a while you know we start with a hug for those of you that are brand new

listeners to the one family we are so happy to have you joining us for this show.

Yes. Because you might not know a hug is an opportunity for you to hear from

someone else in the one family, someone whose marriage has seen transformation or

restoration and just hear their message of hope. And this week's hug is

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