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The Terri Cole Show

418 Beware of These Common Manipulation Tactics!

The Terri Cole Show

Terri Cole

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2022

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Is there someone in your life who uses guilt to try to get you to do what they want you to do? Or have you ever been on the receiving end of flattery where someone says all these amazing things about you, but then expects something from you?

These are both examples of emotional manipulation tactics. 

In this episode, I'm talking about the most commonly used manipulation tactics to help you recognize them + understand why you might be falling victim to this kind of dysfunctional behavior.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/418

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, hello there and welcome to this episode of the Terry Cole show that I want to start

0:04.0

with a question.

0:05.8

Have you ever been guilt tripped in your relationships with your mother, with your siblings,

0:10.6

with your partner, where they're basically saying after everything I've done for you,

0:15.1

I need you to do this thing for me.

0:17.8

Or do you have someone who is very flattering to you, telling you how wonderful you are,

0:23.6

and then moments later they're hitting you up for something?

0:26.4

Any of that sound familiar?

0:27.7

Because both of those things are emotional manipulation tactics and in today's episode

0:32.3

I'm going to be sharing with you the top most common emotional manipulation tactics out

0:37.0

there that are being used and I'm also going to guide you to why you might be being victimized

0:45.5

in this way or why you might be a target for emotional manipulation and what you can

0:51.3

do about it.

0:53.8

Before we get into today's actual episode, I just want to say, hey, thanks for being here.

1:00.6

As always, if you don't know me, if you're new to this podcast and you're like, wow, I just

1:05.1

got here.

1:06.1

Well, hi.

1:07.1

I'm Terry.

1:08.1

I'm a licensed psychotherapist and a relationship expert and I wrote a book called Boundary

1:11.3

Boss and you can get it at BoundaryBossBook.com or anywhere, fine books are sold.

1:17.1

And again, you guys just, you could be doing anything, but you're here.

1:20.8

And I love that you're here and that we're here together.

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