Some might say there's a lot of unhelpful advice out there around productivity and success,

like you're going to sleep when you're dead, all that stuff.

If anybody watching or listening wants to truly retrieve their dreams, what do you think are three things they should focus on first?

The first one is you should get clear about what your dreams are as opposed to just have a

hint of them because soft intuitive

undisclosed dreams are just there to bother you but specific dreams can be challenged.

Specific dreams give you the chance

they, no, I don't really want that.

And the second thing is to be very clear

about the change you seek to make, the change you seek to make in yourself

and in others. You are not entitled to change other people. They have to go along with you,

which leads to the third one, which is to develop the empathy

to realize that other people don't see what you see,

don't want what you want, don't need what you need,

and that's okay.

So if we can bring other people something that helps them achieve their dreams

in a way that helps us, it's way more likely that's going to happen

than if we just sit in a dark corner whining about the fact that our intuitive dream hasn't come true yet.

The clarity piece, I feel like that's one of my favorite words and my favorite things to discover and to crystallize is that clarity.

It's like, what is it that I actually really want?

And what don't you want?

So you can't, like, you know, I was a couple years ago

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