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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 2 May 2022
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
Ray and Robyn McKelvy, now married over 30 years, join Juli to share their story of fear, doubts, and learning to trust; and how God used it all to help them build true, authentic intimacy.
Guests: Ray and Robyn McKelvy
Show notes:
- Join us at Reclaim 2022!
- Family Life
- Introduce the show! How do you take your Java?
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Java with Julie. My name is Christine, and I live in Chiang Mai, Thailand. |
| 0:07.0 | I like to listen as I walk on the rooftop that overlooks the beautiful mountains of Changmai. |
| 0:12.0 | The message that we are all sexually broken in need Jesus is something everyone needs to hear. |
| 0:18.0 | My favorite episodes are the ones where Julie, Linda, and Hannah discuss topics |
| 0:22.5 | intergenerational as they help me understand my own relationships. So grab your Java. It's time |
| 0:29.5 | for Java with Julie. |
| 0:43.6 | I'm Julie Slattery, and thanks to Christine for introducing the show today. |
| 0:48.7 | Java with Julie is a listener-supported podcast and outreach of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming |
| 0:55.8 | God's design for sexuality. And today I get to make an exciting announcement. I want to let you know |
| 1:01.6 | that October 14th and 15th, we will be hosting a reclaim conference. The last time we did a |
| 1:08.2 | reclaim conference was, I think, way back in 2019 before COVID, but this is a time for the authentic intimacy community to gather and to really invite God to reclaim his design for sex in our lives. |
| 1:23.1 | And so I'm inviting you to come to my hometown in Northeast in Ohio this fall. |
| 1:28.7 | And it is beautiful in Ohio in the fall. |
| 1:31.0 | We get the changing colors and just the crisp air and great apple cider and all the good |
| 1:36.2 | things that you can enjoy. |
| 1:37.8 | But we're really here to talk about what God intends sex and marriage to look like. |
| 1:43.4 | That is the theme for this year's conference. |
| 1:45.8 | God's design for sex in marriage. I have noticed that there are so many people who misunderstand |
| 1:51.9 | God's plan for sex in marriage. They're just confused between what the culture is teaching them, |
| 1:58.8 | what maybe even they've learned growing up in the church |
| 2:01.4 | about sex is all about just following a bunch of rules, and they don't have the greater |
| 2:06.0 | vision for why God gave married couples the gift of sexual intimacy. |
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