From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm joined to Lorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love and commitment.

Give us a call on the hug hotline at 858-765-63 or send us a hug email to

hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com. In today's show we talk about what happens when you feel like areas of your marriage are a broken record,

playing the same negative scenes over and over again and what you can do to start to create new ones.

And as we start today's show, I want you to think about this quote.

It says, you can't change what's going on around you until you change what's going on within you.

There's a big difference there.

So often we're quick to want to change everything else

and yet if we want to create lasting change,

if we actually want to create change it starts with

changing what's inside us and we're going to be digging into that a lot on today's

show but we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and that's an opportunity for you to hear whether you've been

listening for for one week or maybe this is your first show or you've been

listening for eight years for you to hear from someone else in the one family just like you

someone who's had breakthrough someone who's seen transformation in their

marriage and this big hug is sponsored by Beach Body on demand and Beach Body

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