41: How to Instantly Change Your Abundance Story
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
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🗓️ 27 July 2017
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
What's your abundance story? Are you happy with where you're at? Or do you operate from a place of lack? If you're the latter, it's time to change things up.
As you learned from my previous mini episode, we're ALL entitled to abundance, but we're not guaranteed it. That means, when it comes to your own abundance story, it's up to YOU to make the decisions.
So first off, you're the one who sets the finish line. Realize that it's a subjective decision as to what your abundance story us. You are radically abundant right now. You just may be choosing to see your current level of abundance as a lack of abundance because of how you're choosing to define it.
"Abundance is nothing more than an opinion or feeling. You determine what it is to you."
For example, let's say you make $50K a year, and you're not feeling abundant because you feel like you're not making a lot of money until you hit $100K. That lack of abundance you feel is on you. You're the one who created that definition of abundance and you're unable to recognize the abundance in the $50K that you already make. The same goes for the person making $100K who feels a lack because they're not making half a million… See where I'm going with this?
"You can't be pissed off if you don't feel abundant, because you're the one who set the finish line."
You must recognize that you're the one in control of how you define abundance and appreciate the abundance you already have.
To help, I encourage you to start a gratitude practice. Personally, every morning I start my day with a positive mantra. Mine and my wife's is: "I am happier, healthier, wealthier, and more fit than I was yesterday." Then, I do a quick prayer of gratitude – expressing thanks for all the big and little things in my life in that moment. After all, when you're appreciative of what you already have and you're feeling abundance, you're going to attract more abundance.
Lastly, know that your abundance story is just that – a story. This story is nothing but ONE interpretation of the events in your life.
"The events aren't fiction, but the meaning you put on them is pure fiction. Nothing has meaning other than the meaning you apply to it."
So do your best to change the events, people or choices that downgrade your abundance story. Choose well! Consciously choose to see the positive over the negative.
"Choose a level of abundance so big that others benefit from it as well."
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- How to create a more rewarding abundance story
- Why your abundance story is really a subjective decision
- How to take control of and appreciate the abundance you already have
- Why having a gratitude practice is so important
Resources:
For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome everybody this is for the love of money where we are making you |
| 0:08.6 | unapologetic about your pursuit of success by sharing the tools, tips, and stories of those who have already made it. |
| 0:16.5 | My name is Chris Harder, and each week I will bring you incredible guests |
| 0:21.2 | in order to prove that when good people make good money they do great things. |
| 0:26.0 | Welcome back everybody to another mini episode of For the Love of Money |
| 0:36.2 | episodes that I like to call My Two Cents. Now today I'm going to talk about |
| 0:40.9 | one of my favorite topics to talk about and that is our right to be |
| 0:45.2 | unapologetic about our desire for abundance. |
| 0:50.4 | But in order to get there, we need to create a more rewarding abundance story. |
| 0:58.0 | All of us have a story around abundance, some good, some bad, most of us a mix of a little bit of both. But you need to be able to create a more rewarding story of abundance within yourself before you're going to be able to be unapologetic about your |
| 1:16.0 | desire and your entitlement for abundance and yes I said entitlement we are |
| 1:22.1 | entitled to abundance. We are entitled to wealth. |
| 1:27.0 | No different than we're entitled to happiness. We have a right to pursue it. |
| 1:32.0 | But we are not guaranteed |
| 1:35.6 | So I'm saying we are entitled, but that does not mean that we are guaranteed wealth. We are not guaranteed abundance just just like we're not guaranteed happiness. |
| 1:44.1 | It means that we own the right to make the decisions and to enter into the pursuit of abundance |
| 1:52.0 | and wealth. |
| 1:53.2 | So first, why would we even want to change our abundance story? |
| 1:58.5 | Well, our abundance story is the story that we tell ourselves internally about being worthy of a certain level of |
| 2:06.8 | abundance or wealth or however you define abundance. |
| 2:11.6 | And that brings me it's really a subjective |
| 2:15.0 | and that is, it's really a subjective decision |
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