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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

4084: Stay or Go Decisions by Steve Pavlina on Life Decisions

Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

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Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness

4.63.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2026

⏱️ 11 minutes

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This is Optimal Living Daily.

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Stay or Go Decisions by Steve Pavlina of stevepavlina.com.

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And I'm Justin Mollick.

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Welcome back to Optimal Living Daily or the OLD podcast, where I read to you from some of the

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best blogs I can find and get permission from,

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mostly covering personal development and minimalism on this show. We cover other topics in the

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Optimal Living Daily podcast network, which includes a bunch of other shows. Definitely subscribe to

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those if you like this one. You can search for Optimal Living Daily, and all of them should pop right up.

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For now, let's get right to it and start optimizing your life.

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Stay or Go Decisions by Steve Pavlina of stevepavlina.com.

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What if you're currently tolerating a situation you don't want, but you're unclear about where to go next?

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What if your current job, relationship, or lifestyles, a mismatch for you, but you feel hesitant to leave

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it behind? Imagine being stuck on an island, but you don't like it there. It's too small, the weather is often bad, and it smells like rotting fish.

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And suppose that when you climb to the tallest point on this island and look around,

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all you can see is the vastness of the sea in every direction.

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What do you do?

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Well, you have two options.

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