4079: Nightmares of a Perfectionist by Joshua Fields Millburn of The Minimalists on Overcoming Perfectionism

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🗓️ 10 July 2026

⏱️ 11 minutes

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0:55.0	Nightmares of a Perfectionist by Joshua Fields Milburn of The Minimalist.com.
1:00.3	And I'm Justin Mollick.
1:01.8	Welcome to Optimal Living Daily, OLD, or Old for short, the show where I read to you from
1:07.1	articles that I think are amazing, with permission from the authors.
1:11.9	So that's get right to the post as we optimize your life. Nightmares of a Perfectionist by Joshua Fields
1:21.9	Milburn of The Minimalists.com. Perfectionism is a futile endeavor.
1:28.6	As a perfectionist, I speak from experience, and this is my confessionary hymn.
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