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High Capacity – Nervous System Regulation, Stress Management, Burnout Recovery, Somatic Tools, Anxiety, Boundaries, Overwhelm

401 - From Anxiously Attached to Secure: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Parenting, Relationships, and Stress with Jessica Baum

High Capacity – Nervous System Regulation, Stress Management, Burnout Recovery, Somatic Tools, Anxiety, Boundaries, Overwhelm

Michelle Grosser – Inspired by Mel Robbins, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and Dr. Becky Kennedy

Education, Time Management, Anxiety, Productivity, Nervous System, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Emotional Regulation, Parenting, Somatic Tools, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Overwhelm, Work-life Balance, Burnout, Mindset

4.9538 Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

If you’ve ever wondered why you over-give to keep the peace, shut down to stay “strong,” or feel that push-pull of wanting closeness but fearing it—your attachment style is likely running the show behind the scenes. In this episode, I’m joined by Jessica Baum, therapist and author of Anxiously Attached and Safe. We break down attachment theory in real, everyday terms—how early experiences shape the way you love, what “secure” actually feels like in your body, and how to move from surviv...

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0:00.0

Welcome to Alive and Well, the podcast for the new era of high achievers.

0:07.8

You're done burning out, and you're ready to lead, work, and live in a rhythm that honors

0:14.5

both your brilliance and your body. I'm your host, Michelle Grocer. I'm a trial attorney turned nervous system strategist,

0:23.4

and I've lived the burnout story. I know what it's like to chase your goals at the expense of

0:29.1

your well-being. And I also know it doesn't have to be that way. Here, we're redefining success. It's where productivity feels peaceful,

0:41.2

boundaries feel like freedom, and energy comes from within. Each week, I'll share practical

0:49.0

tools for nervous system regulation, time mastery, and somatic strategies so you can show up with clarity,

0:57.5

calm, and confidence in every part of your life. Because you, my friend, were given a spirit

1:05.1

of power, love, and a sound mind. So here's to life and living it fully. This is the path to feeling alive and

1:16.6

well. Let's dive in. Hey guys, welcome back to Alive and Well. It's Michelle here on the show today.

1:24.8

We're talking about, you know, those moments where you can't quite put your finger on why you're feeling either annoyed or edgy or disconnected or carrying tension that just won't let go.

1:38.1

And maybe it's showing up in your marriage.

1:40.9

Maybe it's showing up in your friendships.

1:42.9

Maybe you just want to withdraw or you can't even think of the last time that you hung out

1:47.6

with one of your friends.

1:48.7

Maybe it's in parenting or maybe it's just that constant hum of stress in the background.

1:54.7

I think a lot of us don't really realize that so much of this traces back to our attachment

2:00.3

styles. It's that kind of like invisible

2:02.8

blueprint that's formed when we're babies in our earliest relationships, how we attach to our

2:09.4

caregivers that's still having an impact. It's still shaping on how we connect and how we

2:14.9

cope and how we care for ourselves today.

2:20.3

And my guest on the show today is Jessica Baum.

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