Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. I'm Anne. I have Amy Kate back with us this week.

Amy Kate is an advocate for partners of sexual addicts.

She's a survivor of two marriages that ended due to sexual addiction.

She has six amazing children and she's trained by the Association of Partners of Sex Attics,

Trauma Specialists.

You know that as AppSats.

She's also trained by the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy.

She's also a customer service representative at Covenant Eyes.

Covenant Eyes is an accountability and filtering software that is one of many tools that we need to use in recovery both for our own safety and for the safety of our families.

She can be found at Psalm.40 Warrior.com. Welcome back, Amy Kate.

Hi, glad to be back.

So we're going to talk about demystifying the behaviors of sex addicts today.

Being a recovering drug addict, I'm sure,

has its advantages when you're talking

about your ex-husband's sexual addiction

and how that worked and how devastating it was.

Can you talk about the definition of insanity and where you were in that process

of observing your husband's behaviors and being in that chaos and not being able to figure

out exactly what was happening.

When we're in a relationship with an active pornography addict or an active sex addict.

Why is there so much chaos? Why is it so difficult to get to the bottom of whatict person when you see these behaviors that are insane that's kind of

of what they look like and they make absolutely no sense. You can't wrap your head around why they do the things they do.

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