My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy

patterns and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and

trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

I am coming at you today from my office. So the sound may sound different. There may be a little bit of an echo. As those of you who are devoted listeners know, I usually record in my bedroom where there's a lot of sound

installation between blankets and furniture and everything else and in my office there's

furniture there's my desk there's other things there's even the sound boards on the

wall but it definitely is not as cushioned as normal.

So hopefully I am coming out clearly, but I'm having to record in my office because some of you may know I have a little

four-year-old here who is with me for the next couple of weeks while he is recovering

from his cell cellcillectomy and his adenoidectomy and his ear tooth

being put in. And a little man loves his mommy and he loves what mommy is recording and I am just trying to hide to record this

while he is on his iPad and so there might be a little voice who's a

part of this episode or there might be where I'm teaching and then there's a jump and the sound quality is different because

now I'm recording in a different room. So bear with me y'all, but for today's episode.

Oh, by the way, I had a great birthday,

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