This is Jay Parker. In my last sex chat quickie, I talked about four ways that sex portrayed on the screen sets us up for unrealistic expectations.

Today, I'm finishing out that list with four more ways. First, the sex position most often shown as missionary,

and somehow their bodies fit perfectly. Man and woman lie face-to-face and penis to vagina.

The alignment of their genitalia is only matched by the alignment of their eyes as they gaze

passionately at one another. Is that likely? Well, in the U.S., the average man is five inches

taller than the average woman. If you line up a man and a woman, eyeball to eyeball, the likelihood

their genitalia will line up as well is pretty much not happening. Yes, you can adjust your

sexual position to look into one another's eyes, but if that's not easy or not that way every

time, join the club. If you have extreme height differences, you know this isn't happening.

Thankfully, there are many possible positions, and you can find the ones that work for you.

We recommend checking out Christianfriendly sexpositions.com.

Next up, you'll totally relate to this myth.

The woman on the screen, orgasms from intercourse.

It's kiss, grope, fall on the bed, have intercourse, and boom,

the heavens open, and she's gasping with excitement because best orgasm ever. Sure, some women

orgasm with intercourse, but a fair number of wives need other forms of stimulation to reach

climax. Indeed, the best way for most women to reach orgasm is through heavy kissing,

manual stimulation, and or oral sex. Those together are named by researchers, the Golden Trio.

So if you assume the earth would shatter solely from him thrusting into your vagina, you may need to

adjust your expectations. It could require more angling to hit that sweet spot, additional

stimulation to the clitoris

during intercourse, or other sexual activities. And that's all okay. Third myth, they're quickly

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