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HERself

4. Change is Good: What We Learned in the Last Decade

HERself

Abby and Amy

Real, Vulnerable, Comparison, Kids & Family, Honest, Purpose, Health & Fitness, Education, Future, Mental Health, Grow, Best Self, Self-improvement, Opportunity, Parenting

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2020

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Hindsight is 2020. If you could go back in time and tell your younger self 3 things what would they be? You don’t have to find your husband in collegeTo get through things, you have to stop avoiding and actually get through themNot everyone gets an opinion on your lifexo, Amy The plan for your life may changeEnjoy the journeyIt’s okay to ask for helpxo, Abby Let’s connect! HERSELF INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/herselfpodcast MEET AMY: instagram.com/ameskiefer MEET ABBY: instagram.com/abb...

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Why are you racing to the finish line? Like you're doing something right now.

0:04.0

Enjoy the moment. Enjoy what you're doing right now. Enjoy the reason you started

0:08.0

running in the first place instead of just focusing on that end goal.

0:11.0

And for those out there who have a personality that is

0:15.0

and for those out there who have a personality that is goal focus

0:16.0

that is accomplishment-based it's hard to focus on the journey.

0:20.0

I'm Amy.

0:24.0

And I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

0:30.0

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

0:33.0

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

0:36.0

and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

0:39.0

We get vulnerable and real

0:41.0

with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face.

0:45.0

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

0:55.0

Both Amy and I have had journeys to get to where we are.

0:58.0

And there's lots of room for growth, but hindsight is 2020 and in this year,

1:06.5

2020, that's really one of my biggest focuses on using the past mistakes, the paths, all those events to really help guide where the future

1:15.4

actions could go.

1:16.7

So when someone you love is about to embark on something, maybe it's becoming a new parent, maybe it's going to a vacation spot that you've already been to.

1:25.0

Isn't it easier to tell them what to do when you're in the actual moment all you feel is frazzled?

1:31.0

So this week's episode is on the three things that Amy and I would each

1:36.1

tell our younger selves. So Amy, let's start with you. Think back to your 20s. Pre-kids, pre-marriage life, what would you tell Amy or really any woman listening

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