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🗓️ 8 May 2025
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Have you ever noticed how your body reacts when you're doom-scrolling? The tightness in your chest, shallow breathing, and racing thoughts aren’t just in your head—they’re physical responses from your nervous system reacting to perceived threats.
In today’s episode, I’m joined by somatic-based personal trainer Emily Decker to discuss how our bodies process information and why so many of us get stuck in cycles of anxiety and doom-scrolling. We explore the fascinating connection between our nervous system and the constant barrage of alarming headlines, plus why our bodies can’t distinguish between real physical danger and the emotional stress we get from media consumption.
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Struggling to make progress on your goals or facing anxiety in relationships? It could be because your brain has wrongly connected your survival to things that aren't actually life-threatening. In this new free training, Safety is an Inside Job, I’m teaching you how to disconnect those patterns and create lasting change. Join me on May 14 for this interactive session—sign up here: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/safety-training
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0:00.0 | Hello, my friends. I'm so excited for you all to hear this episode and this conversation all about kind of somatic safety, which just means like how we can feel safe in our bodies, because so much of our mental spin and mental rumination is actually aimed at just trying to feel safe in our bodies. I was just coaching someone on |
0:22.7 | this recently in my Mission Impossible Mastermind, which is a kind of small, high-end mastermind I do |
0:28.4 | for women who want to set big impossible goals. And we were talking a lot about how she was |
0:35.1 | constantly kind of like jumping from thing to thing to thing because she was |
0:38.6 | chasing this feeling of safety and that that feeling could only come from inside, right? |
0:45.9 | Partly from regulating her nervous system, which is what this episode today is all about. |
0:50.3 | And the other part of that safety that we need comes from changing our thought patterns to start to break the associations between certain thought patterns and danger or safety that our brain has. |
1:03.4 | And that is a second and really important piece of the puzzle because even if you learn how to regulate your nervous system on a physical |
1:11.3 | level, the way we're going to be talking about in this episode today, if you don't know how to |
1:17.2 | change the thought patterns that your brain associates with danger or safety, it just keeps |
1:22.3 | recreating that nervous system activation. And when your brain associates a thought pattern with danger or safety, |
1:29.9 | it is operating at a really deep subconscious level that can really sabotage you without you knowing. |
1:34.9 | So a lot of the times I find that when I'm coaching someone and they just can't shift a certain |
1:39.6 | thought pattern or they can't get themselves to like put themselves out there or take a certain |
1:43.9 | kind of |
1:44.2 | risk or work on, you know, a big project or goal they've had for a long time or get out |
1:50.1 | of a relationship that isn't working or set boundaries or whatever. It's because their brain |
1:54.6 | associates doing those things and changing those thoughts with danger. And so you really can't like just push through that danger |
2:03.1 | response. It's always going to win. So it's really important to be able to spot where am I |
2:09.0 | associating some way of thinking and being in the world with danger or safety. And how can I |
2:15.4 | start to question that and gain awareness of that so I can shift it. |
2:20.2 | So this is a really powerful practice to bring awareness to and I'm actually going to be teaching |
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