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Happiness Podcast

#392 - Open Hearts Open Minds

Happiness Podcast

Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.5955 Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2022

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Open Hearts Open Minds (How to be kind towards others)

There is a natural tendency to quickly evaluate a new person that we meet on various external factors. What if we kept our hearts and minds open with everyone who met? Might we not experience a much more different and beautiful world?

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the happiness podcast. I'm Dr. Robert Puff. There's a lot of reasons why we miss out on happiness in our lives.

0:14.0

But do you know one of the biggest ones is?

0:17.0

We miss out on life because we're not present

0:22.0

and we're not paying attention.

0:25.0

Instead, we have all our conditioning, all our prejudices, all our preconceived notions about life and in that process and all that

0:36.4

beziness in our heads we miss out on life. A simple way of seeing this is when we meet a person for the first time, before they say one

0:50.4

word and talk to us, we probably have seriously evaluated them. We look at what

0:57.6

they're wearing, we look at their skin color, the way their hair has been cut, the wrinkles on their face, whether they're

1:06.3

smiling or not, how much extra weight do they have, or how do they carry themselves physically? Are they standing upright? Are they

1:16.4

slumped over? And with all this information, we come up with an assessment.

1:25.0

And then when we hear them speak, we listen to the way they speak,

1:27.0

what they say, how they say things.

1:30.0

And before we know it,

1:32.0

we put them in a category, we know who they are, and yet we barely met them.

1:39.0

What if, instead, we did this?

1:42.0

When we met them, we just stayed quiet. We didn't evaluate them for anything.

1:50.3

We didn't expect anything to come out of their mouths. We didn't assume anything.

1:55.9

We just met them and remained opened in our hearts and opened in our minds so that we could truly discover who they are and that

2:08.7

discovery would take time, it would take effort, it would take effort.

2:13.0

It would take getting time to know them, asking questions,

2:17.0

spending time with them, really listening.

2:21.0

And if we did that, I believe we would find we would meet a very different person.

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