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Happiness Podcast

#391 - How To Be Happy

Happiness Podcast

Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.5955 Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2022

⏱️ 15 minutes

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How to be happy: It's not about having wonderful experiences; it's about flowing wonderfully with whatever life brings.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the happiness podcast. I'm Dr. Robert Puff.

0:07.0

There's a lot of different ways we explore happiness together, how to have a happy life.

0:14.5

But today I want to talk about perhaps the key component of a happy life.

0:20.4

It's not about having wonderful experiences.

0:24.0

It's about flowing wonderfully with whatever life brings.

0:29.0

I want to repeat that because it's critically important.

0:32.0

It's not about having wonderful experiences.

0:36.0

It's about flowing wonderfully with whatever life brings.

0:41.0

99 if not 100% of our energy is going to go towards changing our

0:47.1

external world so that we like the way our life is going. There's a real propensity to think if things were different, my life would be going

0:56.5

better and when I'm having wonderful experiences, then all is well, at least for that moment.

1:03.4

And I know I have wonderful experiences,

1:06.0

so my focus, my energy is going to be going towards,

1:09.7

one, trying to recreate them, and two two sustain them all the time. But why doesn't this work?

1:17.0

Because we really think it ought to. I mean that's why so often people sacrifice so much to get things going a certain way

1:27.1

and then they'll believe that life will be wonderful because once everything's going

1:31.5

wonderfully my life's going to be going well.

1:35.1

But there's some big problems with this approach to life.

1:38.7

The biggest one is we can't control a lot of things external in our world. We can influence them a bit, but control them completely.

1:47.6

Absolutely not. For example, we may make it our goal to find our soul may someone that if we fall in love with them and

1:56.2

they fall in love with us we will live happily ever after and sometimes it works for

2:01.6

a little while we have wonderful experiences with this person.

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