People who spent more time looking at job posting sites were more likely to quit their job because they have more of a perception of there being other

options out there. Same with people who look on dating apps while they're in a

monogamous relationship are more likely to leave that relationship because it's

adding to that perception of having more choices.

And it's not, you know, that alone doesn't do it, but that's part of this equation.

So it's your treasures minus your troubles added to your contributions minus your

choices or your perceived choices.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily. And I'm Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of

relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

forcing me to for myself to

to fit. On this episode of the multi-amory podcast we're continuing our discussion on

self-worth and comparison in relationships and this week we're going to be

focusing more on the comparison part.

So how can it affect our relationships, not just with romantic relationships but also with your

peers and even with yourself? How does comparing yourself and your relationships to

others affect you and then what can we do about that? What can we do to improve that?

Again here I am providing my own personal anecdote of here. Yeah, this is a tough one for me, comparison for sure.

And you know, I think I compare myself to not only like my friends, my business

partners you too, but also I do find myself comparing to people that are like my

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