#387: Redefining Self-Worth: Separating Your Identity from Your Work
The Mark Groves Podcast
Mark Groves
4.9 • 5K Ratings
🗓️ 4 July 2024
⏱️ 16 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to another episode of the Mark Groves podcast. Today I'm coming at you with a very |
| 0:05.1 | special solo episode because it's an excerpt from a talk I recently gave. But before I get into that, |
| 0:11.6 | if you're watching this video, you know that I'm in a very makeshift setup. I got some top |
| 0:17.5 | walls. I don't even have a mic stand. I'm holding my mic. You know, so much of what delayed me from writing and speaking and creating videos was afraid it wasn't perfect. |
| 0:29.1 | That I wanted to strategize. I wanted to make sure all the equipment was the best and da-da-da-da-da-da. |
| 0:36.6 | But all of it is just delay strategies because we're afraid to start. |
| 0:41.9 | And so I say that to you with like, just get it done. |
| 0:45.6 | Like I've got, this is not ideal, but it is available. |
| 0:51.6 | And it's really about witnessing ourselves show up no matter what. And so if you've been |
| 0:56.3 | delaying starting anything, here's your opportunity to get out of the strategy, get out of |
| 1:02.2 | all the ways that you're trying to make it so you don't have to put yourself out there and be |
| 1:06.4 | vulnerable and just begin. Just get it out. Just get it started. Okay. So that's my rant. Now, the talk that I'm |
| 1:15.8 | sharing with you is from a recent conference that I did that was focused on entrepreneurship. |
| 1:22.5 | And I love speaking in spaces like that because to me, I think owning your own business is really not totally dissimilar to the same level of personal growth that's invited from being in a romantic relationship. |
| 1:37.3 | Because so much of our identity is tied up in success or not or putting out vulnerable thoughts, feelings, and ideas. |
| 1:48.3 | And then if they don't land or they don't sell or they don't do whatever, we often feel like |
| 1:53.7 | they're a failure. And it's actually really beautiful work to be able to decouple our self-worth |
| 1:59.9 | from that. And that's true |
| 2:01.8 | relationally too, where we can make an honest assessment about how we showed up and contributed |
| 2:07.9 | to the outcomes of our lives, but how they are not actually correlated to our worth. So in this talk, |
| 2:14.1 | I share aspects of how do we move through that? How do we put our stuff out there? |
| 2:18.7 | How do we actually decouple our self-worth? |
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