387-Engineer, Feeling Helpless, Discovered "It's REAL". Kevin's Transformation Story
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 9 June 2023
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
I'd like to share Kevin's story, mostly in his own words.
As always, there is a huge message of hope and transformation available in this story, so I hope you'll listen in!
After 28 years of marriage, feeling like roommates, Kevin said "I felt helpless" and "very isolated, very alone" in the struggles he experienced.
As a very successful (and busy!) IT exec overseeing teams in India, UK, France, and elsewhere, and really being able to figure out most things on his own...
It was confusing to not be able to figure out marriage in the same way. And it was painful to hear his wife caring more about something like Diet Coke than him. Logically, he knew it wasn't true but it sure felt like it at times.
He listened to the DYM transformation stories (like this one!). And they sounded too good to be true.
But he kept hearing parts of his story over and over again through other people's DYM interviews.
He thoroughly checked into the DYM work and dived into the podcasts.
Of the work, he said, "the more and more I listened, the more I found and heard the biblical basis of everything and heard the logic."
Then, he took courage and had the Clarity Call which he said "the Clarity Call was exactly what it says: it was very clarifying."
Once in, of the program: "It was very incremental, very linear, and based in a way where it clicks, where it makes sense."
"The feedback loop, the accountability, the camaraderie of all the other gentlemen going through the program, that environment is an extra dimension of learning that I think is important, if not key to success."
"It pours all the ingredients together to make things work."
"I talked about things I have never talked about with anybody in my whole life during that part of the program."
Through the Delight Your Marriage program, Kevin experienced an improvement in his marriage and a greater sense of fulfillment and walk with God.
We would love to take the next step with you too. Sign up for a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc and we can witness your transformation as well!
(And who knows, maybe just like Kevin, you'll be our next transformation story who initially thought it was "too good to be true"!)
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS -- If you're wondering how healthy your marriage is right now so you can get clear on the aspects to improve, fill out the Marital Health Assessment for a free evaluation of your marriage health so you can take steps to make it even better! delightyourmarriage.com/health
PPS -- Take action now and sign up for the Clarity Call. Sign up for a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc and we can witness your transformation as well!
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:19.0 | Hi there, welcome. Thank you for joining. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:24.3 | Hi there. Welcome. Thank you for joining. |
| 0:42.0 | Today's conversation is such a treat because Kevin and my personality are very different in that he is a very careful thinker, logical, calm, judicious, analytical. |
| 0:50.0 | And he's gone very far in his career with that kind of really leaning into those qualities. |
| 0:57.6 | And so when he was looking for changes, really dramatic changes in his marriage, he utilized that very analytical mindset of, is this a program that would be the right fit? Is this real? |
| 1:05.0 | And it was really fascinating when Kevin and I started talking to hear more of his personality |
| 1:10.4 | because, yes, I, you know, |
| 1:13.0 | coach these men for three months, but a lot of times I don't hear, you know, what is their life like, |
| 1:17.2 | what kinds of jobs, what's their career like, what are, you know, a little more uniquenesses |
| 1:21.9 | about who they are. So it was really fun to dive into his story even more. And then hear how God changed things and his perspective. |
| 1:31.0 | So I think it's going to give you a lot of encouragement and hope. |
| 1:33.4 | So if you're one of those men that are very similar to Kevin and a very analytical thinker and even skeptical, that's just the way you're built, that's okay. |
| 1:43.3 | And that's why I think it's going to be really good |
| 1:45.4 | for you to hear from somebody who has that bent. And yeah, because God can do some really |
| 1:54.2 | amazing things. Anyway, even with the analytical engineering kind of mindset. |
| 2:02.3 | And before we dive in, if you are wondering where your marriage is in terms of how healthy |
| 2:09.2 | it is, and maybe you know you're suffering, but you don't really understand why, and you |
| 2:15.8 | know you feel lonely or you know you feel like you're in roommate status, but you don't |
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