386-Men, You Were Designed For Respect
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 2 June 2023
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
I am grateful so many men share their unfiltered hearts with me.
It is an honor and a privilege.
I find that many men feel extremely misunderstood. And they have numbed their pain just to "get through".
The problem with numbing is we don't see the people right in front of us and the pain they are experiencing.
What I see so frequently is men who are desperately trying to be the men God designed them to be, but are frustrated with the lack of respect in their marriages.
I want to help you understand...
1 - that your feelings here are valid and even God-designed
2 - there is a productive way to handle this gap
(Spoiler alert: it starts on the inside of you.)
Love & Blessings,
Belah
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Graduate Quote:
"It's changed it completely, our home environment is filled with tenderness, compassion, love and respect."
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:20.0 | Hi there, welcome. This is Bella. Delight Your Marriage. |
| 0:27.7 | Hi there. Welcome. This is Bella. I wanted to record this episode for several reasons. |
| 0:36.9 | One is respecting your husband is a major tenet of what we teach at Delight Your Marriage in the Intimacy Framework. |
| 0:41.7 | And if you don't know what that is, go to Delight Your Marriage.com slash framework, |
| 0:45.9 | and you can download a PDF that goes into it more specifically. |
| 0:52.0 | But essentially, it's discerning what a husband needs to be filled up in his marriage and what a wife needs to be filled up in their marriage. |
| 0:55.0 | And when any of those elements are lacking, it's, you know, just three for each side, if you |
| 1:00.9 | will, when they're lacking, it causes a big hurt in a husband or a wife. And they're different |
| 1:08.0 | things. So respect is one of the very important of the three. |
| 1:15.9 | And I realized in looking at my episodes that I've released is I have not done an episode |
| 1:25.5 | specifically on respect. |
| 1:28.3 | And what I realized is that, you know, in working with men, |
| 1:32.3 | some men are, they feel ashamed and like there's something wrong with them |
| 1:40.3 | that they need respect. |
| 1:42.3 | That's often what I see. And then secondly, maybe they feel very |
| 1:47.4 | justified in needing respect, but their ways of getting respect isn't working and it's pushing |
| 1:57.8 | their spouse away. And so I want to handle those topics on this episode |
| 2:04.2 | because I don't want you as a husband to feel ashamed for needing this. This is God's design |
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