383: You're Not Broken, You're Predicting: Day 2 - I Do Feelings
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Havilah Cunnington
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🗓️ 23 January 2026
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
Why do so many of us feel disconnected from our emotions—or overwhelmed by them?Welcome to Day 2 of I Do Feelings. Today, Havilah explores why we learned to ignore, suppress, or distrust our emotions and how those patterns often started early in life.In today’s video, we’ll look at:👉 How family systems, faith culture, and survival strategies shape our emotional responses👉 Why disconnecting from feelings once helped—but now holds us backThis is about awareness, not blame. As you watch, notice what resonates and what God gently brings to the surface.Grab your journal and give yourself permission to be curious—not critical.✉️ Get the daily videos delivered straight to your inbox so you don't miss a day:https://truthtotable.com/feelings📘 Grab the Book: The I Do Feelings book includes journal prompts and activations to help you go deeper each day—but you don’t need it to participate.👉 Buy on Havilah's Store:https://shop.truthtotable.com/products/i-do-feelings👉 Buy on Amazon:https://a.co/d/2L44JCb🙋♀️ Connect with Havilah:https://havilahcunnington.com
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| 0:00.0 | Have you ever had an emotional reaction where you think, what is wrong with me? |
| 0:12.5 | Have you ever had this little thing happen and you find yourself panicking over something |
| 0:18.6 | you know logically isn't a big deal? |
| 0:20.7 | And yet everything, the real estate, |
| 0:22.9 | emotionally, mentally, it just feels like it's been absorbed. Well, I want you to know, |
| 0:27.3 | you're not broken, you're predicting. Yes, I said that right. You are not broken. You're predicting. |
| 0:33.4 | And when you understand that, when you actually understand that truth, everything changes. |
| 0:39.1 | So open up your Bibles to the book of Romans chapter 12, verse 2. |
| 0:43.5 | It's at the back of the Bible in the New Testament, Romans chapter 12, verse 2. |
| 0:47.6 | We're going to read that. |
| 0:48.7 | But first, I want to share a story in my book of how this kind of happened in my everyday life. It's an embarrassing story, |
| 0:55.3 | but I hope you relate to this. So I'm going to read it. I stood in the kitchen staring into the |
| 1:01.0 | fridge that was completely frozen over. My four boys, they were hungry, and Ben was on his way |
| 1:07.3 | home. And all I saw were shelves of random ingredients that didn't add up to an actual |
| 1:12.9 | meal. My heart started to race. My palms got sweaty. And I felt that familiar pit in my stomach. |
| 1:20.2 | Why am I panicking over dinner? This wasn't a crisis. It was pasta. But it felt like the whole |
| 1:26.8 | weight of my life was hanging on whether I could |
| 1:30.0 | figure out what to cook. Inside, the monologue started. You should have planned better. You're |
| 1:36.6 | always behind. Everyone else manages their life. Why can't you? Then came the shame. Normal people |
| 1:44.0 | don't fall apart over spaghetti. |
| 1:46.1 | Something is wrong with you. |
| 1:47.9 | But here's the truth I didn't know then. |
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