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straightforward opinions and advice for your love life. Hi everyone.

So the topic of today's episode is,

get out if it's not right, period.

So I was out having dinner one night with a group of ladies at a networking event and as usual when women get together.

The topic of relationships came up.

And one of the ladies had been divorced and one was in the

process of getting divorced. She was separated. So anyways, at one point in the conversation,

something prompted me to say, well, no one gets married thinking they're going to get divorced.

Because you know how you always hear people say things like, I'll never get divorced. If I get married,

it's forever, or divorce just isn't an option. And I mean, who would want to get married actually

thinking that they're going to get divorced one day? What would be the point? It's like, okay,

so if half a all married population got divorced, apparently divorce was an option.

And my point with this is that people are so naive to think that something like that could never happen to them.

Or that the people who do get divorced, oh, they just don't have as good a relationship as we do.

Truth of the matter, just like any relationship, you cannot predict the future. You cannot even really predict what will happen on a

day-to-day basis. And of course, you're supposed to focus on the positive. And no one obviously

wants to think that they could get divorced, but it's reality.

So it's good to be aware that it could potentially happen.

And don't think that you're above all of the people who have gotten divorced,

because that could end up nipping you in the butt.

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