379-What are You Teaching the Next Generation about Marriage?
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 18 April 2023
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
You are teaching them.
Whether consciously or unconsciously, they're observing you and figuring out whether you have something they want.
Do they want the marriage you have?
Is marriage worth it?
Do you have guidance that would actually give them the result they want?
If you've been around Delight Your Marriage a while, you know we are passionate about helping marriages get better, SO THAT they can do God's will better in the world.
But what if your marriage was set up with the right framework, role modeling, and good habits BEFORE you even started your dating relationship?
Since we started teaching marriage, we have always been told that they WISHED they knew this before ever getting married.
And it's so true.
So many people didn't start out with the tools.
They've never even seen a good marriage!
But your son or daughter could get a leg up.
They could get started on the spouse pursuit journey by having not only a great example (you!) but also the tools clearly articulated for them.
What if your son or daughter knew how to find and attract the right partner to help you fulfill your God-given purposes?
In our climate that may seem like a tall order!
You are teaching your kids whether you like it or not.
They learn that you have nothing helpful for them, or they learn that you can give them the tools and insights they need to thrive in their most important human relationship!
With all of our work with men and women, we have seen it done well and done very poorly many times.
And it is the right time for us to help this next generation START their marriage pursuit well. Ultimately we want them to find, marry, and sustain a wonderful marriage built upon biblical wisdom SO THAT they can do God's will in the earth.
Today's podcast is about how you can help the next generation.
We'd like your help as we're finalizing a pre-dating resource! If you'd like to offer your wisdom and experience and suggestions, we'd really appreciate your input! Partner with us by filling out this survey How to help the next generation get and stay married? delightyourmarriage.com/dating
Blessings,
Belah
PS - Seriously, I want to know what you think! We're finalizing pre-dating resources now – get in on this!
Survey: How to help the next generation get and stay married?
delightyourmarriage.com/dating
PPS - If you need help on your own marriage for the sake of your kids, go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc
A recent grad:
BEFORE:
"Prior to doing MR I often felt alone and that my sexual desire was a problem. I felt my wife often intentionally withheld intimacy from me.
It was difficult to discuss because my wife felt I was blaming her and she wasn't enough."
AFTER:
"Understanding my wife better. Learning Health ways of responding. More and deeper sexual intimacy. More freedom and playfulness
The learning and growth has meant I can focus on God better which enables me to be a better version of myself. This has enabled me to focus more on others."
If you need help on your own marriage for the sake of your kids, go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:19.0 | Hi there, welcome. This is Bella. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:30.2 | Hi there. Welcome. This is Bella. And I have to tell you, I am so excited because we are about to share something that is just, I mean, it's exactly what our clients have asked us |
| 0:37.4 | for for years. |
| 0:39.3 | By God's grace, their marriages have changed, transformed, shifted in ways they couldn't even have imagined ahead of the programs. |
| 0:47.3 | We hear that all the time. |
| 0:50.3 | Somebody just posted in our women's group, something like I'm living the marriage that I didn't even realize was possible before this |
| 0:59.0 | program. |
| 1:00.1 | And like that's what God is doing. |
| 1:02.2 | Here's the thing, though. |
| 1:03.9 | What if your daughter, what if your son had the skills, had the understandings, had the role modeling, had the wisdom |
| 1:15.6 | before they ever got married? |
| 1:20.7 | Right now, our kids, your kids, the generation, maybe your flock, if you're a pastor, maybe those you lead if you're in |
| 1:30.5 | ministry somehow, maybe friends, nieces, nephews, whomever, they are desperate for guidance. They need |
| 1:38.6 | guidance. And so yes, that means that you need to make sure your marriage is strong and healthy, so you're a good example. |
| 1:46.9 | But also, how do you help the next generation? |
| 1:50.6 | How do we help them? |
| 1:51.9 | They are confused. |
| 1:53.4 | They need guidance. |
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