378-[Even During War] "Don't Postpone It". Ukrainian Alex's Transformation Story
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 14 April 2023
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
When the crisis occurs outside of your home, if it's not peaceful and healed in your marriage, it becomes an additional stress instead of support in a horrible time.
I am not sure if you've lived through war – literally – but if so, you'll relate to Alex. I'll share more about him in a second.
Every member of our DYM team witnessed life transformation in their own marriages (first) and then God seemed to give us a need for a position right as He gave us the person who fits that need.
But with our need for a tech and automations specialist, the expertise was so specific that it was important we go for someone who is foremost extremely good in their specialized field, as we can't risk the infrastructure of the organization to not work correctly.
That's when, last April we hired Alex as our tech and automations consultant. He has amazing experience in the field, with our specific systems, and has worked with hundreds of clients, some businesses making millions per year and one even $50M per year.
It was such a relief to hire him. Purely on a professional level, he has been amazing to work with – hardworking, proactive, humble, responsible, and (shockingly) positive.
But he was living through war.
Literally.
His home is the capital city of Kyiv, Ukraine, which was attacked last February. Since, he has endured this horror at his doorstep.
Eventually, he and his wife were able to escape to Spain but after a couple of months, they returned to Ukraine to help with generators and getting food and clothing to orphans suffering the bitter winter.
As a member of the team – he was the only one who hadn't gone through the program. But unlike anyone who has ever been a candidate for the program, he had seen the full backend. How we handle data, how we set up the program, the many transformation stories and really getting to know our team personally.
He also had an opportunity to decide is now a good time to focus on his marriage and take the Masculinity Reclaimed program.
During war.
He decided...
Yes, it was.
And his encouragement to you is
"don't postpone it...
as it won't only affect your marriage but it will have a positive effect on your entire life."
All in all, there is hope.
Even if you're struggling and the battle rages not only outside your home but inside.
It is worth it to get your marriage better so you can withstand the difficulties and even literal wars in this life.
We would love to help you.
Blessings,
Belah
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:24.5 | Hi there. I am so grateful you're joining. |
| 0:27.9 | Today we're going to talk to Alex. |
| 0:35.6 | And I have got to tell you I'm really excited because he's one that I highly respect in regard. |
| 0:38.3 | And I've known him a very long time at this point compared to most of the gentlemen that you hear testimonials from. |
| 0:42.6 | He is, well, back when the Ukraine war started, we were in need of a tech and automation |
| 0:50.4 | specialist, and I didn't know how to help the people of Ukraine. And so we made the |
| 0:58.4 | decision to hire somebody from Ukraine. And that is Alex. And he has been absolutely amazing |
| 1:05.8 | since we started working with him. If you can imagine, there were sometimes I was on a call with him |
| 1:11.3 | where rockets, where he was woken up by rockets going over top of his head, missiles. And, |
| 1:20.2 | and that's the kind of horror that he was living through. And he was just so incredibly humble, professional, focused, careful. |
| 1:37.0 | I mean, he was so fantastic in his work ethic. |
| 1:41.3 | But then just in our interactions, it was that way as well. But here's the thing |
| 1:47.7 | that's so, so telling and hard to believe, really, really. I mean, just put yourselves in |
| 1:55.0 | his shoes. So war is happening all around him. |
| 2:12.6 | Just every, everything, people and loved ones and the normal of life is literally being bombed right outside of your door. I mean, here he is in the capital city during the most intense atrocities happening. |
| 2:22.5 | And he and his wife were able to escape. |
| 2:26.1 | They were able to get out of the country and go to Spain. |
| 2:32.8 | And he was able to even get very quick permanent residence in Spain. |
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